Ladies and gentlemen, I've dated a few long time friends over the last few years. I do have to say, no matter how strong the connection will seem, there will be something missing. Most recently, what was missing was "fire". I've lost the entire friendship now because at the end, he wanted all or nothing.
The time before that, the guy actually tattooed my face to his body. We weren't even dating anymore when he did that. Even weirder, he always broke plans with me and was often unavailable. The second I got comfortable dating someone else, that's when he got the tattoo. Can you say WTF?
I guess we overlook the craziness in someone when we already have a friendship with them. This is not something anyone should do when newly dating. Hindsight. Oh well. How did I end up dating a guy that claimed to be ass raped by a space alien? I would have never accepted that kind of claim from someone I was new to.
Ok readers, I will plead to you. Don't date your long time friends. If feelings are changing your friendship, hang out with someone else. If you insist on dating your friend, be prepared to lose your friend or maybe even have to block them (like the crazy tattoo guy). Be aware "fire" happens immediately and is not something that can be worked on or grown. Your friend has faults. Ask yourself, if this were a complete stranger you were learning about, would you still be interested?
I am the mother of two sons. They are 16 years old and 13 years old. My youngest son has special needs. He is autistic. He tries so very hard but life is difficult for him. He understands he is different than other kids his age.
My oldest son doesn't want to go to school and is being a very moody teenager. He often gets angry but he is has this other nice side. He is really good to his brother.
We have a dog and two cats and live in a nice home. I work very hard. I work as a medical assistant in a doctors office. I'm thankful to have a job and most thankful for my family.
I like to write poems in my spare time. Sometimes my poems get turned into song lyrics. I also do some singing.
Just an introduction to me. I'm not sure what I will write here, but every likely it will always be different.